We've all been told time and time again to have our keys in our hand when we are approaching our cars or our homes. Sure; that makes sense. Be honest; do you approach the door with the correct key in your hand, ready to insert into the lock? Or are you just like everyone else; you stand at the door, fumbling through the keys (and other rubbish) on your key ring to find the right key? The longer you stand there focusing on your keys, the longer someone has to approach you from behind. This problem is amplified if this is part of your daily routine, especially if someone unpleasant is keeping track of your movements. Someone who is routinely unaware of their environment becomes an easy and predictable victim.
When you're leaving the shopping centre; as well as having the correct key in your hand, you should have a quick look across the car park for potential trouble before leaving the safety of the mall. There's no shame in asking for one of the security guards to escort you to your car. Undesirables are less likely to hang around if they know the security team are vigilant.
I'm sure you've heard the self-defence advice of "putting your keys between your fingers" to defend yourself. I don't know if you've ever tried doing this, but realistically, an attacker isn't going to just stand there while you fumble about, trying to retrieve your keys, then allow you a little extra time to put them in place. As well as being time consuming, it weakens the structural integrity of your fist. If you don't believe me, go and grab your keys, and hold them between your fingers. It isn't very comfortable, is it? Now ask yourself, "If I punch something as solid as a human with this, what is the likely outcome?". Will you hurt the person you have punched? Maybe. Will you break one or more of your fingers in the process? More than likely. I've heard people defend this technique by saying that you could use it to blind your assailant. Maybe; if you are quick and accurate. But you had better be able to justify to the police and a magistrate why you chose to permanently blind your attacker, instead of simply running away.
One last thing, please don't hide your spare house key within six feet of the front door.
What do you keep in the boot of your car? A spare tyre, a jack and a basic tool kit would be the typical response for most people. These things would be enough to see you through the minor inconvenience of a flat tyre. One other item most people carry nowadays is a First-Aid kit.
What if the unscheduled stopover is more complicated than a flat tyre? What if you're unfortunate enough to experience some form of serious mechanical failure? The tow truck could be an hour or two away (usually longer, if you're in a remote area). Do you have any supplies in the boot of your car to look after yourself?
You can fit everything you need into a small overnight bag, which will tuck neatly into the corner of your car's boot. You probably won't even notice it's there. "What should I pack into this bag?", I hear you ask. You might have different ideas or requirements, but this is what I pack into my bag:
- 2 x 2 litre bottles of water (per person)
- 1 x packet of sweet biscuits
- 1 x small box of teabags (or sachets of instant coffee)
- 1 x small packet of UHT milk portions
- 1 x small box of sugar sachets (if you need sugar in your tea or coffee)
You will also need a hexamine stove (they fold up smaller than a paperback novel, so they don't take up much room), some fuel tablets for the hexamine stove, a packet of matches, a billycan, a couple of tin mugs (because tin mugs don't break when you drop them), a teaspoon, a flat-pack of toilet paper, and a little hand shovel. The last two items are often overlooked.
If you are in a rural area, you might also consider including 3 x cups of instant noodles and an extra litre of water (not exactly nutritious, but it'll get you through 24 hours). These usually come with a disposable fork inside the cup.
For your comfort, you should also pack; an old jumper (one you won't miss, but one that still fits you), a floppy hat, a blanket (you'll appreciate this if you're stranded overnight), and an old towel (you'll need it if you break down in the rain). You might also consider adding a small bottle of sunscreen, a small bottle of hand sanitiser, and some insect repellent.
It can get pretty boring being stranded on the side of the road for a few hours; and listening to the radio will drain the battery, so you might want to pack a paperback novel and a deck of cards (you can kill a few hours playing patience).
It won't cost you much money to set this kit up, and the kit won't take up much room in your boot. Hopefully, you'll never need to use it.
Beyond fashion preference, your choice of shoes might seem insignificant in the urban environment. On smooth, flat, even ground, you'd be right. Open toed sandals, or light weight shoes made from a breathable material are a great choice for wearing around town.
But once you leave the well maintained footpaths of suburbia and tread into the countryside, your choice of shoe becomes a little more important. A sturdy sole with a solid tread pattern is far more practical than a smooth soled office shoe. A durable sole stops sharp objects from penetrating your foot. (I learned that the hard way as a teenager when a 6 inch rusty nail went through the sole of my sneaker, and into my foot).
The lightweight, breathable material used for sneakers works wonders when you're running time trials on the track; but will do precious little to protect your foot from sharp sticks or jagged rocks when you're climbing over rough terrain.
Boots that come up over your ankle will help prevent an injury if you are unfortunate enough to roll your ankle (yeah, I learned that the hard way too). And don't forget, snake bites tend to happen on the lower portion of people's legs (leather boots to the rescue).
Even from a self-defence perspective, boots make a lot of sense. Lightweight sneakers will provide your feet with about the same amount of protection as a pair of slippers.
Hopefully, the next time you head out from the urban environment, you'll be a little more mindful of your choice of footwear.